Saturday, September 25, 2010

Date Night Updates

I know  you want to know how it went.  I'll preface by saying I've only slept 2 hours and I'm dead tired so typos may appear:

My date picking me up:  When he called to say he was minutes away I noticed cuckold husband slip into the bath room to comb his hair.  I guess he needed to look good for the man who was going to come and take me away and fuck me? lol

What I wore:  Thank you to all of you who voted. I wore my back dress and boots. It's a very simple yet very tight dress that goes just below my knees with a small slit on one side. I wore it with my high-heeled boots.  I curled my hair and piled it loosely on top of my head.  With the knowing that my lover had a jucuzzi hotel room I didn't wear much makeup other than several coats of mascara and red M.A.C lip gloss.  Sweaty sex would just ruin my make up any way. I didn't wear a bra and wore my thongs with the jeweled strings.

What we did: We went to a popular mall to watch a movie. I decided I would rather strut around and get reacquainted with him.  It was fun and exciting fawning over him knowing that in such a popular mall someone could see us -  some one who doesn't know I am in a cuckold relationship with my husband. It was also exceedingly erotic to walk through that mall turned on and braless in a tight black dress with a hot man on my arm. We then went for dinner where he sat next to me stole kisses, stared at my nipples and rubbed my pussy until it was wet and throbbing.  When the waitress asked how the food was he licked his fingers and said it was delicious.  She had no idea he was talking about my pussy juice and not the food. Neither of us finished our meals and went back to his hotel.

Hotel: We had too much champagne, sex on the edge of the jacuzzi, sex in the jacuzzi, wet sex on the bed,  The highlight probably getting eaten out while sitting on the edge of the jacuzzi and rubbing my feet up an down his back and him picking me up and fucking me in the mirrored bathroom so I could watch his shiny black body thrust into me.

Homecoming: I had no creampie for my cuckold I used a condom with my lover...sorry boys. My husband commented several times on how "fucked up" I looked..tired, lipgloss sucked off, lips chapped,  hair ruined and sore. It was unusual that he was so wide-awake that early on a Saturday morning.  He was obviously waiting up for me. We went to the bed room I stripped down and straddled his lap and told him about all of the date...slowly leading up to the sexual details while he sucked my nipples and sniffed me all over.  He likes to smell another man on me. Since I had no creampie for him I let him fuck me to make his own. He kept asking me if my lover fucked me like how he was and if my date had a bigger cock and hurt me with it.  I told him the truth and told him my lover fucked me better.  I kept calling out my lover's pet name and cuckold hubby came quickly...as usual.  The then ate his own cream pie. I shared some deep cummy kisses with him.

So I had a great night and morning. I haven't gotten nearly enough sleep but I'm going to start my day. Every time I walk by cuckold husband I whisper to him how sore my pussy is. He just loves it.

Feminists, female supremacists and whores - A serious post

I am a feminist.  I believe that women have value, our experiences are unique, worth studying and praising and that historically we have been oppressed, mislabeled, and exploited.

Women's sexuality is an obsession and is largely defined by men. The definitions are often faulty yet they affect all women none-the-less.  As girls we are raised to protect our sexuality "wait for marriage" defend the pussy from the cock.  As women we are expected to be sexual dynamos. We are rarely raised to be truly sexual beings who express our sexuality how we choose in conditions that we feel comfortable with.

Whores

The good whore: The one who is available to the man who is labeling her as such. She acts in a way and within a context that a man accepts.  E.g. if you are wild in bed with a man you are a good dirty sexy whore.  My husband often refers to me excitedly as a whore in swinger/cuckolding situations, it heightens the excitement for both of us I realize he does so because I am doing something that he accepts as it turns him on.

The bad whore: One who is not available or not available in a context that a man is willing to accept.  A sexually liberated woman that a man is not interested in/attracted to is often labeled by him as a whore. Many men label women who reject them as whores.  If she has sex with others but not him and that doesn't turn him on she is a whore. If she doesn't do or respond as he would like she is labeled a bitch or whore. Often if a Domme will play with a man for free she is " Asian Mistress"  and "Asian Goddess" if she will not play with him at all or will only play in the context of financial reward she is demoted to "chink whore" status.  The women is the same, her actions are the same but what changes the label she is given is what the man is willing to accept. The bad label whore is not compartmentalized it is meant to explain her whole being. With regards to women who demand financial reward if you do not want to pay walk away. If that is what she wants and she is not interested or attracted to you should she play with you simply because you have dangling flesh between your legs? The traditional whore is a practitioner of the oldest profession because the market is always there.

A woman is free to embrace or reject the title of whore.  I believe that society as a whole places too much value on men's opinions and feelings on women's sexuality.  I define my own sexuality.  Offline I am not interested in labeling men's sexuality other than within  the context of kink if I deem that man a suitable partner.  Either I find him desireable/worthy as a playmate or I don't.  If I don't I do not care what he does with his dick, ass and mouth. Also I have no desire of pleasing a man, simply to please him.  I please him because/when it arouses me to do so and because he is of some value to me.

I am a self-aware woman and I am aware, especially being a PSO, that many men will move a woman up and down the scale from Goddess to whore based on his own wants.What changes is the man's mind set not the actual woman or her actual value (maybe then a whore is a fictional being  like a unicorn.)

Many real-time and phone submissives are very moody and fickle.  They focus on their sexual arousal, mental and or physical, and their need for attention and have very little interest in the mental sacrifice and commitment that is needed to be truly and skillfully submissive. In the context of phone I am more understanding of this.  I am not accepting of it but I realize that many of my callers have never served a dominant woman and not in a situation that has allowed them to develop a personal relationship with one. They call me to get immediate gratification. For many though cloaked in submission, phone sex is just what it is phone sex and simply a fantasy they flip off into for a few minutes.Some of these very men believe that men are superior to women.

Part of my dominance stems from my strong awareness of male's views on my sexuality.  I choose to define it for myself,  I use their definitions to my advantage, I dance on the edges of tradition and I make no apologies for having a clit and liking to feel it tingle. I make no apologies for falling outside of the little acceptable circle of marriage.  I make no apologies for enjoying, providing and charging for phone domination. I do not charge for my physical touch because I only play with those that I want to and I am very selective.  To the women that do charge for real-time because they enjoy what they do and have a desired skill I say more power to you...go on with yo bad self ;-)

Having a penis does not give authority to have an opinion that actually counts with regards to being able to quantify the  value of a woman within the 5 letter word whore.The term john is not given nearly the same power. That's because throughout history men have made the rules and things were stacked in their favor.

I can be a whore and a saint.  I act according to my desires and my value is not stuffed up my pussy and dependent on what man I give or do not give it to and under what terms I do or do not.

Whore and bitch when used negatively are terms used by the frustrated because they lack creativity and feel entitled because their sex organs hang on the outside.

Part of my dominance comes from my nature, part of it from such realizations.  There is something to munch on regarding true female supremacy.  Whether a man is at my feet or not I believe in female superiority because of our nature and our experiences.

The biggest whore you know may be the biggest feminist and female supremacist, you just do not realize it because she is not wearing flannel and work boots and doesn't reject all cocks.

 Miss Lenore

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Thursday, September 23, 2010

What should I wear on my date on Friday Night? VOTE NOW

 I was reading a book and sipping a lovely glass of wine when my chocolate former football player stud called to say he was in town.  He has promised dinner, a show and is staying at a hotel with a jacuzzi. I lo-ouhhhhve jacuzzi sex.

We love to show each other off in public and we make a great looking couple.  I love his smooth chocolate skin, bright smile and sexy shaved head. You know what else I like about him too *wink*

I often let cuckold hubby pick my outfit from head to toe, but he lacks creativity - he'll pick a low cut blouse, short tight skirt and stay up stockings every time. What he doesn't understand is that it is getting COLD, that my dates with this stud are usually active mini golf, walk in a park etc and that the short skirt and blouse thing are starting to seem like a uniform to me.

I really get a kick out of how my cuckold husband talks about my date like he knows him, like he's his friend, I guess based on all of the things that I've told him, but when my lover comes to pick me up my damn husband can't muster any other words to him than "how you doing?"and tries to make awkward conversation about sports with him (like he's a man's man lol). Yes it's an awkward situation but he should be used to it by now...besides he likes it.

Help me out. What should I wear on our Friday night date, keeping in mind that it is getting a little chilly here:





What should I wear on my date?
Skinny jeans, funky off the shoulder yellow top,heels
Curve hugging black dress, hair up, knee boots
Chinese style silk tunic, leggings, heeled booties
Skinny jeans, tight white t shirt, knee boots




  
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Wednesday, September 22, 2010

My New Listing On Niteflirt - Plunge it in me deep

I've created a more "traditional" line on Niteflirt.  I enjoy hard rough sex with well endowed alpha males.

I have experience in the swinger and cuckold lifestyle and I enjoy brandishing a hard strap on. That being said though, I like good hard fucking. A hard cock head in my mouth, the warm explosion of cum on my face excite me as I love to be a show off whore. The sinful delights of anal sex and rimming are always welcomed.

I work out hard and I'm very flexible. I'm petite but I'm a size queen.I love it when you are kinky and dominant if we click right. I get off being stuffed with a hard cock while being called names. Do you want me to service your friends too, while my husband is at home or tied to a chair and forced to watch?

I have a sexy mature voice and I'm a good listener. I pick up on what a fella wants. So I'd love it if you would call me now. 


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Sunday, September 19, 2010

Swiffer Duster Dick Sucker

I enjoy my Sunday morning cleaning sessions.  I throw on  a big t-shirt, tie my hair up, blast music and clean to my heart's content. I look at it as part of working out.  However, looking at my swiffer duster, I can't help but wonder what a cuckold or sissy would look like sucking big dick with it jammed in his boy pussy and with clothes pins on his nipples lol.

Well they say that Swiffers attract "dirt."


I'm in a delightful and mischevious mood and available for calls:




  

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Why you should suck cum cuckold

I know you like my long shining dark hair, sensual exotic eyes,plump,sculpted lips and toned legs. Most men do, I do not go anywhere without commanding the attention and adoration of men. I turn men into bumbling blushing fools. They will hold doors open for me for minutes and hold my legs open while a REAL man fucks me raw and ragged


I want to rest my cumfilled pussy on your face, I want to squeeze my big black lovers's cum from my alabaster shaven pussy onto your tongue. I want to be the cruel demon that makes you give your mouth and precious man pussy to me and my lovers - the demon that makes you burn in the hell of shame, ecstasy, servitude and humiliation. 

Let's suck one of those huge cocks together -  his balls in your mouth and his cock in mine and make it hard so he can fuck me and do things to me that I would never let you do to me. You are not man enough anyway. Accept that and embrace it. 

That's why your ass is so flat - it's for easy access to your man cunt and your little cock is like a cum vomiting inflamed pimple. Your cum only belongs in your mouth or flushed down the toilet. No woman wants it.

Your sexual prowess is inferior, your masculinity is contrived, fragile and false, so let me relieve you of the burden by making you my cum slurping cuckold bitch. Besides wouldn't you like to watch me be impaled by big  cock anyhow? 

You now have to compete with big dicked Black men too
(you know you can never really compete).  Black men have taken white women away from you and Asian women too. 


Besides you'll probably love it no one has ever been as obsessed with big black cock throughout history more than white men, not even black women lol.



Wednesday, September 15, 2010

WTF is going on?!!! A cuckold's cry.

Why do first time cuckolds always like to ask "WTF is going on?!?!" when they first walk in on their cuckoldress getting the cock she deserves?  If you see your woman naked on her knees with cock in her mouth, balls on her tongue, or see her getting skewered or impaled with painfully massive cock, don't you know WTF is going on? LOL. Yelling out that phrase doesn't make the bulls disappear like ghosts.  This isn't Harry Potter where you can cast the WTF spell and make it all stop. Usually  it just makes men fuck a cuckoldress harder in front of her alarmed and aroused cuckold.

Frankly a lot of us get off on the vocal protests of  a cuckold bitch. WTF is going on is that we are cheating on your sorry asses to get the cock we want, how we deserve it, in a way that you never could provide.   Instead of yelling you should ask how you can help or STF up and watch the live porn going on in front of you.  You can't stop a speeding freight train of cock, if you whine too much a bull may just bend you over and freight train your ass when he's done with your woman.

Sharing that thought with you. I'm off to do Power90x.  That exercise DVD is kicking my ass but the muscle tone it's giving me is well worth it...kind of like super large cock....painful but oohhh soooo goood. Damn my abs look good!


Friday, September 10, 2010

Tales of lewd cum-filled, debauchery - how this "phone sex operator" operates

It actually just dawned on me that I'm a "phone sex operator." I've never liked the term because in my mind I get visions of a woman sitting in a call centre, with a fake husky voice going "oh baby oh baby I'm cuuu-ummming!!!", while she files her nails.

I don't feel like I'm doing phone sex, though I know that essentially I am.  I don't feel that way because I specialize in sissy and cuckold calls so I really get into them. I consider myself more of a story teller and evil instigator.  I listen to what a caller is saying, and just as importantly not saying and then I set a scene with vivid description, then I encourage the caller to be the biggest cuckold or sissy that he can be and then some. I'm a painter of images in the mind of the man who calls me.



Based on my experiences, natural dominance and perhaps the fact that I'm an avid reader, cuckold and sissy calls are my natural favorite. I enjoy doing them.  I do calls more for the enjoyment than the money. My cucky hubby can't fuck but he sure can provide.

I listen then weave my tales of debauchery and hot smut. I weave a vivid scenario that intertwines the threads of what a man desires and often fears. I always take my call in a quite place, when I'm talking with a man I'm talking to him. I clear my mind and free myself of distractions.

Some gentleman simply phone to chat about cuckolding and sissification, some call to ask me questions about my experiences and that is enjoyable as well. Some men call to tell me their stories, they want to share their fantasies and experiences with me, which is somewhat flattering because there are many women that they could have called. Some are just outright nasty (my favorites) they make it clear they want cum in their mouths or huge cocks to stretch them open. I also love to hear whimpers and sobs.

The term "phone sex operator" seems too simplistic and robotic for what I do, however that is the common title. Despite the disagreeable title I can say that I really love what I do.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

How cuckolding brings us closer

His excited protests
His eyes begging for my attention
His heaving chest and twitching cock
His vulnerable gagging noises
His greedy licks and slurps
His moans of pleasure and pain
His feeble attempts at resistance
His discomfort yet wiliness to endure the ridicule and taunts of my lovers
Knowing that he understands what it feels like to have huge cock plunge into a sensitive greedy hole
Knowing that he has experienced the salty, metallic taste of sperm on his tongue
Knowing that he to has swallowed, the salty warmth sliding down his throat
The tenderness he learns when putting on my delicate stockings
His stall worth patience waiting for me to come home from a date
Watching him tenderly lick and suck sacs full of hot seed
Guiding him to accept what he is good for and what he will never be good at
Working together -  cock in my mouth balls in his or visa versa
Watching the moment of impact as cum splatters on his face
The sinful satisfaction of having cock taken out of my pussy and slid into his mouth
Teaching him that he can never satisfy me the way my lovers can
Providing support, coaxing and guidance to help him be a good little cuckie and cock worshipper
Taking away his responsibility for his own orgasm
His absolute arousal and excitement as I moan and scream
Allowing him to listen to the powerful, hypnotizing rhythm of balls slapping against me
Allowing him a release from the stereotype of masculinity
His excited fear and relinquishment of power as I stroke my lover off on to his ball gagged face
Allowing him to relinquish control as I slide my strap into his hungry man pussy
Allowing him to lie beneath me for a first hand view of hard steel stretching my wetness
Allowing him to lick the sweat off of my lovers broad, dark back as he pleases me
Allowing him to tenderly kiss my wedding ring
Allowing him to clean me and explore me in the most intricate way using his tongue
Teaching him to withhold the humiliation of licking his own cum off of my lovers feet and thanking him for doing to me what he never could

All of these things bring us closer together - a cuckoldress and her cuckold

Sunday, September 5, 2010

The pain of a small penis

I have encountered  ridiculously small men in my life.  When I was in my late teens and didn't really know much better I encountered my first, however after a few of jabs with his pathetic nub I told him to stop.  We finished up with oral and I never spoke to him again.

 Now that I'm older if a man presents me with a tiny penis I literally get mad.  It's a strange feeling - a mixture of heartache, headache, rage and disgust.  It's insulting that a man would insult me by initially seducing me full well knowing that he cannot please me. If you are hung light a light switch approach another woman not one of my caliber.  I've seen cocks that are not just below average but absolutely ridiculous, to the point where I wonder if they have a medical condition.  If I want to bump clits I'll go find a woman not a hairy, heavy breathing, gimp with a man clit that looks like an outtie belly button surrounded by wiry hair.

If its small it ends. I leave or I tell them to get out why waste my fucking time? Some men have reacted with anger but my anger has out matched theirs. 

Saturday, September 4, 2010

Off to meet a couple (maybe play)

I consider myself as bi-situational.  I enjoy women in sexual situations but I prefer men.  Hubby and I were having a rather boring Saturday when when we were invited by a couple that we have been in contact with from a popular sex site to meet for drinks (implied possible play).

So cucky hubby and I will be heading out in a few hours.  I'm always a little bit nervous meeting potential playmates for the first time.  I'm mostly nervous about being disappointed.  The couple has not swapped face photos with us and we can respect that, but the hubby of the couple looks tasty, tall, slim and silver haired, the wife is curvy with delicious pink nipples. They are around our age and professional so if nothing happens I trust we will at least have a few laughs and good conversation.

Another thing I get nervous about is eating pussy.  I'm very confident and experienced with men but not nearly as much with women.  I enjoy licking pussy but I do it more out of reciprocal politeness and for a visual turn on for the men ( I only enjoy females when playing with other couples) I lavish the soft wet kiss of a female.  For me kissing, petting and sucking the nipples of a horny soft skinned woman is almost better than the sex.  I guess the real bottom line is I love dick and penetration.  I crave the powerful presence (and pounding) of men.



I've been in the mood for the last few days.  Hopefully our meet for drinks will turn into a pleasurable evening.  I'm off to figure out what to wear.  I want to look sexy but not intimidating.  I find that when meeting couples one on one it's best to not outshine the other woman too much or else there is an unspoken tension/jealousy right from the start and her husband may be distracted by me.

I'm looking forward to this evenings potential, but in the back of my mind I know that it's time for me to go out and get smashed by huge cock soon.  I think I'll involve hubby, he loves to watch. 

You know I think I'll go with what I call my "Betty Crocker" black dress and pearls, perhaps with my hair up. It gets me off to look like the perfect, conservative,  professional couple in the eyes of others, when we know full well we swingers looking to lick and fuck.  I'm not going to bother wearing panties though ;-) and perhaps I'll wear my  nippleless bra.

I'm off for a quick workout before we get ready.